John Gray, author of the best selling book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus has recently launched the Ask Mars Venus Coaching program.
You think you’ve fallen in love. All the symptoms are there, just like the last time — and that has you worried. It didn’t work then, why will it work now?
So, should you be willing to take the risk? The answer to that question is a definitive “yes.” You are worthy of the love of another. But love can’t find you if you aren’t willing and able to let it come back into your life. You can — and should — risk falling in love again.
That doesn’t stop you from wondering: “What guarantee do I have that things won’t go sour again?”
My answer is: “None whatsoever.” After all, there are no guarantees for anything
That said, you still have the concern of recognizing love the next time around. Well, guess what? It’s really not all that difficult. Although your soul-mate won’t be pictured on a billboard with an arrow and the words “Hey! Over here!” painted over his/her head, his/her actions will speak louder than words.
Here are four telltale signs that it’s okay to get exclusive:
Sign #1: Your partner lives up to most (if not all) of your expectations.
Sign #2: Your partner is demonstrating respect and appreciation for you.actions
Sign #3: Your partner doesn’t disappear during a crisis.
Sign #4: You can see yourself living the rest of your life with this person.
If you see these four telltale signs, the writing’s on the wall: this is the one.